My son is developing into a truth seeker. That would be great, if I wanted to be completely honest with him about everything, but I don’t. A few years ago, he was seriously questioning the existence of Santa. He didn’t seem convinced by our “those are just his helpers” explanation when we went to get his picture taken or … Continue reading
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Obi Wan Walk
As we have gotten closer to the end of summer, we try to appreciate our family time before the chaos of school completely envelops us. Often times, a family walk is a great way to regroup and connect. Apparently, my son was seeking that connection last night when he asked Diane to walk with him. This wasn’t going to … Continue reading
One of Many
I had another bad parenting moment. I wanted my son to stop playing Mine Craft and to do something else…anything else! We had started a daily schedule that included lunch at the same time of day, academics, chores, and free time scattered throughout the day. My son was pushing back, especially when I told him that … Continue reading
Just Saying
I have the rest of this week with my son before I return back to work. Next Monday, it all begins. Getting up and out of the house, suddenly aware of the clock that has had secondary importance most of the summer. The hair dryer must be used and make up applied when those were completely optional … Continue reading
Two Weeks
My son struggled to get the bottle of Talking Rain out of the refrigerator when the calendar caught his attention. Instantly, his demeanor changed. He stood in front of the fridge, ignoring the family photos and magnets, and counted the dwindling number of untouched boxes. I watched him out of the corner of my eye as he analyzed this … Continue reading
Preparing
Now that it is officially back to school season and the freedom of summer has started to fade, parents all around are planning for the first day of school. Families are trying on clothes to see what can be saved and what must be donated in order to make room for new school clothes. Moms are piling into SUVs, … Continue reading
Apples and Bananas
Because it is August and I am a working elementary teacher, my thoughts get muddled in my head this time of year. I really want to enjoy the remaining weeks of summer, but I’m never far away from the growing “to do” list that tells me what I need to purchase or prepare for my … Continue reading
The Victor
Since we are now in August, we are beginning to experience some of our Summer “lasts”. We went on our last trip of the summer and in two weeks we have our last OT visit. Today, we had the last swimming lesson of the season. I would be lying if I said that I loved … Continue reading
Today’s List
A few weeks back, we visited Dr. Steven Curtis. Dr. Curtis suggested that my TBP needs to excel in more areas than video games. I received great comments and suggestions from helpful readers and I put a new plan into place. I spoke with my son about the importance of developing into a well-rounded person with lots of interests. … Continue reading
So NOT The Karate Kid
Last week, we had an appointment with Dr. Steven Curtis. He strongly believes that our son needs to develop mastery around something other than video games. He feels that my TBP must experience the struggle, persistence and success felt only after going through this process. Starting at a novice level and reaching expertise, will bring him … Continue reading